In writing this book, I learned to relinquish control and not get caught up in things I can’t change. Breast cancer isn’t something you can just take a pill for—it’s a diagnosis that often brings fear, as it feels like death is looming. I was in a position where I had no choice but to rely on God, not even on the doctors, because there’s no definitive cure for cancer. Throughout the process, I had to trust God to guide the doctors. My biggest takeaway was realizing that faith isn’t about what I want, but about God’s will. Just like Jesus, I found myself crying out, “Lord, take this cup away from me, but not my will—yours be done,” and then waiting for His will to be manifested.
What advice do you have for aspiring authors?
I believe there are many authors among us who have written but haven’t yet published. My main advice is to learn about the publishing process, especially with the rise of self-publishing, and let your voice be heard through your work. Embrace your calling wholeheartedly.
Let’s talk about your other interests. What inspired that interest and how are you using that interest to serve others?
This year, I am committed to fully walking in my purpose. I’ve often been sought out for advice, even on relationships, and I’ve done several Facebook Live sessions that attracted a lot of views. Hearing from so many people about how I’ve inspired them has fueled my passion to step into the role of a motivational speaker. My goal is to inspire others, especially young women, in various aspects of life.
What challenges have you had to overcome along the way?
Too many to count—I could write an entire book on that alone. My journey is no secret; I’ve openly shared how I grew up in poverty in a home marked by domestic abuse and an alcoholic father. This was incredibly tough, affecting me psychologically, financially, and socially. I struggled with low self-esteem and self-confidence, and although I often performed at the top of my class, there were many obstacles, including the lack of money for school and even worse, to pay for my exams when the time came. While my friends went off to university, I had to work to support my family. Eventually, I made it to university, but not without challenges. I needed a bank loan but had no collateral. Fortunately, the government had a program for economically disadvantaged individuals like me, which I took advantage of. Getting to university was my first step toward breaking free from the cycle of poverty. Although other challenges followed, I was better equipped to face them because I had developed a warrior spirit, and my confidence had grown significantly since my teenage years.
How do you ensure that you thrive during challenging times?
I pray—a lot. While some might not understand why I thank God, believing that credit should go to ourselves or those who help us along the way, I see things differently. The way my life has aligned, the people and friends placed in my path at various times and seasons, can only be attributed to divine intervention. I often reflect on how others who’ve faced similar challenges have ended up differently, but I’m where I am because of God’s mercy and grace. I asked, and it was given; I knocked, and He opened the door. Prayer is central to my life, and I’ve learned to give thanks even in the most difficult times. I’m also not ashamed or too proud to seek help. As someone referred to as Dr. Rose-Ann Smith, I recognize that asking for help when needed is essential.
What’s next for you?
The Lord has already placed another book on my heart, and I’m prayerfully waiting for His guidance on what He wants me to write. I anticipate it will be another challenging book, but it’s one I must write because it’s His will. If I don’t, it will feel like a thorn in my flesh. Beyond that, I’m focused on establishing my brand as an author and motivational speaker and eagerly looking forward to the opportunities to walk in that purpose.
